Or these 3 words: Hey, wanna fuck?!

Love is what you make of it........

To me, love is the most important feeling in life. Without love you feel alone. There are many stages and types of love. I love all of my friends. They make me feel wanted and needed just by being there.

Then, there is the love that you feel for that one special person. I have only expressed that kind of love to a very few individuals. It is sacred to me. I don't utter those words for no reason. I must truely "love" someone for me to tell them that. It is kind of like being one with the person. You share in their joy, happiness, and even heartache. That feeling has been absent in my life for so long that I thought I'd never feel it again. I was happy with just the love of my friends, but I've found that love again. I am enjoying every moment of it. It's no secret who I love. I feel totally at peace with jinx. She is my everything!


I know this isn't much of a definition, but I'm on pain medication. So there.........

I vote with all the bitter , lonely people... even though I am not lonely.
Love is a fabulous thing. But the whole One Right Person concept and the whole Romantic Love idea is pretty much a big culturally promoted delusion. Its just chemical infatuation. No offense to all of you currently enraptured with the idea.
I believe in love in a more generalized way. As in, I love most of my friends and will put up with alot for them. I almost love my family again. And I will always love my cats. I think if you can't love anything or anyone you are dead. Even if its just the night sky, you have to love something.
At any given time the only things I can say I love are my cats, and my best friend.
So if any of you tell me about the wonderful guy or girl you just met, understand that I am listening, but I don't think its true or will last. And it probably won't even bring anything better than temporary pleasure to life, before the pain and depression of the "break up".
~ Ex Mystery

im already past my ubergoth love section of life...
love is a chemical imbalance mistake. monkeys get attached cuz they forget they are monkeys. attachment to anyone or anything is a waste (i say this as im trying to learn how to do it again)....
i got three words that are much better id rather have said to me:
"im not pregnant"
"its not yours"
"test results clean"
"dont have herpes"
"ill buy beer"
"rip off clothes"
"fuck me dead"
"ill buy weed"
"wanna get high?"
ect......
anyone of those are so much more rewarding.........

In my mind....at least

Love is interpreted as an honest desire for another person's happiness......even if you are not the one that can provide that happiness.


Bittersweet candy indeed.....just like really good ABSINTHE!

celticsmith wrote:Bittersweet candy indeed.....just like really good ABSINTHE!

now THAT i agree with sir........

For some reason, I feel the need to contribute further to the cause of three word mockery:
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Incorrigible Chew Toy.
It's a belt!
Crunchy in milk.
I am Batman.
"Baptist" means "food".
Tastes like chicken.
Just lube it.
Feed the monkeys.
Punch the pastor!
Incoming: cheap date.
New music, now.
Make it smurfy.
Sheep run fast.
Have another one.

[quote="Exquisite Mystery"]
Love is a fabulous thing. But the whole One Right Person concept and the whole Romantic Love idea is pretty much a big culturally promoted delusion. Its just chemical infatuation. No offense to all of you currently enraptured with the idea.[quote]

Your right that infactuation is just chemicals, but damn.... they are fun chemicals. So, if your infactuated i say enjoy it!!! lol
The whole One Right Person thing though is a bunch of out-dated crap. i don't say that out of being bitter and lonely but rather the opposite. i capital L, Love two people right now, on top of an infactuation/twitterpation or two, and the love that i feel for several friends. So, obviously there isn't one right person, because i can feel the same feelings for multiple people at the same time. Believing in The One Right Person is just limiting yourself to the joys of one relationship. i honestly think that believing in that is what leads to all the lonely and bitter types out there. When things go bad with The One Right Person, a major part of your existance is gone. But if there are others who you love and that love you, a piece is still missing when one relationship ends, but there is someone there to hold you and care for you, so it's not nearly as bad.

this defines what love has done to my life.

I have had my share of relationships in the past, they have all ended in different ways. Either there is too much distance between me and my suitor, i dont seem to share the same feelings that they have for me, or it just seems to be all about sex. Throught these relationships I have only once used the word love to express my feelings. I have to admit that though i am no longer with that person, these feelings still remain. I have many people that I "care" about deeply, but i would never use the word love with them. My family members are a prime example of this....yes they are the ones that helped me to develop my personality, but yet love is not a word i would ever consider to use with them.

This subject is very dear to me....and so I hardly ever speak of it....there has been so much tragedy in my life that i never thought that I could love a person.

Right now i remain single for the reason that having an attachment to people scares me. I think that if i let my emotions out that i will end up getting hurt; like i have in the past. I know that someday i will meet someone that will make my heart soar beyond imagination...but until then i have to be patient...

antika

yes THAT hole?
who let one?
anal sex blues
officer your drunk
tie me up
whip me harder
*anything*me harder
untie the virgin
devirgin the virgin
fisting in public
FISTING BOTHERS IBLIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
stephen's psycholic drumming.... lol

junkie christ wrote:fisting in public
FISTING BOTHERS IBLIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn you. Don't tell everyone!

iblis wrote:

junkie christ wrote:fisting in public
FISTING BOTHERS IBLIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn you. Don't tell everyone!

:whistles:
want me to edit it out?

junkie christ wrote:

iblis wrote:

junkie christ wrote:fisting in public
FISTING BOTHERS IBLIS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

Damn you. Don't tell everyone!

:whistles:
want me to edit it out?

Too Late.... So close, Yet so far....

Sir Diddimus wrote:Love is what you make of it........

To me, love is the most important feeling in life. Without love you feel alone. There are many stages and types of love. I love all of my friends. They make me feel wanted and needed just by being there.

Then, there is the love that you feel for that one special person. I have only expressed that kind of love to a very few individuals. It is sacred to me. I don't utter those words for no reason. I must truely "love" someone for me to tell them that. It is kind of like being one with the person. You share in their joy, happiness, and even heartache. That feeling has been absent in my life for so long that I thought I'd never feel it again. I was happy with just the love of my friends, but I've found that love again. I am enjoying every moment of it. It's no secret who I love. I feel totally at peace with jinx. She is my everything!


I know this isn't much of a definition, but I'm on pain medication. So there.........

I just can't edit it.......

Jinx is still my everything

Read my blog for info.

Oh my God!

Holy shit. No way.

celticsmith wrote:Love is interpreted as an honest desire for another person's happiness......even if you are not the one that can provide that happiness.

I agree! I'm doing that at this very moment. I don't like it, but ultimately I just want her to be happy, even if that means I am miserable.

The Fallen wrote:
Love... is the bloodcurdling yowl of an alley cat, caught in the throes of animal passion by a pack of feral toy poodles roaming the streets like a poofy pack of fat, greasy, tattooed, hard-on sporting, semi-drunken desperadoes with a vengeful lust for justice.

This brought tears to my eyes, so I just had to quote it.

But as for my version of love. I'm not sure what it is, even though I took the leap and am married. Love has such an amorphous quality. But people need to realize that nothing is permant. All things end, by break-up, death, change.......Nothing stays the same, no change=stagnation. Reality is a spiral not a circle. And to get even deeper. All time is now.

Oh Stephen I am so sorry. I am glad you can turn to your friends for support. Take care hon.

*hugs*

i think love is many things. you can love anything. but being "in love" is different.

being in love is finding happiness in the most mundane, trivial things. its lying awake in bed, not wanting to fall asleep for fear that you might miss a mumbled word, a few seconds of consciousness, or a warm arm drawing you in. its putting ones life before your own. its all the wonderful things in the world.

but, most of all, its conquering hurt without feeling pain.