iblis wrote:But really, you're never going to find a "good answer" on the internet. In fact, the only "good answers" you'll ever find will come from inside.

bingoooo...

Yeah, okay, most of this post is a joke. But hell, at least it's not another goddamned link that'll make you want to hurl.

ew
sick even for ibbie

Jack wrote:

Bigun wrote:I understand where your coming from.... now you need to under stand where she's coming from. She is a certain way and you need to blend with how *she* is... naturally... don't force yourself to be what you are not... I hate posers, and I'm assuming a few other people on here do as well. If said girl hangs out with this group, I suggest you find another goth group to hang with in another city and see if you like it. If not, then you two weren't meant to click...

Wait. You seem to be suggesting that they can't have a relationship unless they're both "goths".

I'm sorry. That's the dumbest thing I've ever heard.

Rereading, I don't see where I suggested that.

I merely suggested another group so said lady wouldn't think he *was* stalking her, I think that was what you might have misunderstood... lemme know if not.

failure wrote:First off, I want to say I didn't mean any disrespect by the *One of you.* comment. What I meant was: You all seem like a big fun family, what you have is a very great thing. I fealt (and saw) no tension whatsoever between anyone there. I'm not used to that. Wow. From what I've heard and seen, you guys are great people ( to each other anyways). I apologize for any disrespect whatsoever. I would love to be a part of what you have. As for my name, I fuck a lot of things up,( on a daily basis). The relationship thing is the tip of the iceberg. So the name seems rather fitting to me. I want to thank you all for your replies and your help. I'm not going to give up.I will fight, tooth and fucking nail to get her back. Thank you all again. Have a happy......... April?
Hoping to see you all soon,
Joe

My response to this:

blindboy wrote:There are roughly six billion people in the world. Six fucking billion. Thats a six with nine zeros after it. Screw that one and only line of thought. I figure there are about 10,000 "one and onlys" for each of us.

judas_gnb wrote:well i was goin to jump on here and be a smart ass and trev beat me to it goddamn kid it scary we see eye to eye more and more each day

Scary thought, no?...lol...

blindboy wrote:There are roughly six billion people in the world. Six fucking billion. Thats a six with nine zeros after it. Screw that one and only line of thought. I figure there are about 10,000 "one and onlys" for each of us.

O.o

Jesus... where is my share of this pie damnit...

pryjmaty wrote:*staples hand to forehead* Unless failure writes really BAD depressing poetry/song lyrics, dresses in black, wears eyeliner & black nail polish, has an unnatural preoccupation with death/dying/macbre.....he will get nowhere!!!!

He may also may never had a chance to experience such things. Hell, I wasn't able to join the scene until late in my life... well after I was 22 or so. That's all I'm saying, he needs to find out who he is.. and go from there.

Bigun wrote:
Rereading, I don't see where I suggested that.

I merely suggested another group so said lady wouldn't think he *was* stalking her, I think that was what you might have misunderstood... lemme know if not.

No. You said "Hang out with another goth group. If you don't like it, you two weren't meant to click." Meaning, if you don't like the goth scene, you shouldn't be dating a goth.

Again, that's ridiculous.

-_-

He can do what he likes... but if you hated country, would you date a redneck?

Bigun wrote:-_-

He can do what he likes... but if you hated country, would you date a redneck?

Yes. If you love someone, you can put up with their music choices and clothing style. And if you can't, then you're awfully shallow. Last time I checked, love was about the feelings you have for someone, not the feelings you have about their CD collection.

Bigun wrote:-_-

He can do what he likes... but if you hated country, would you date a redneck?

I don't see why not.

I see you have bought into The Conspiracy's lie that the art you enjoy defines your personality. How very sad.

PS - You have to be a redneck to like country music? But I like Front 242 and Willie Nelson equally. How's that work?

Willie Nelson I wouldn't *fully* qualify as Country music... then again that is wayyyy off topic.

Look, all I'm saying is that even though you may love them in the moment for who they are... in that long haul known as life, having more in common than not, is *EXTREMELY* helpful. That includes music, attitude, and lifestyle. I'm not talking from shallowness or selfishness, I'm speaking from experience. Too many times I've gotten my heart broken by trying to blend with someone completely different from me. And even though I did love them for who they were... it just didn't work out. I just don't see the point in trying to mix with someone with that major risk of investing years of effort into someone just to have them say that "Things aren't just working out".

That sucks.

Moving all other people aside:

failure,
Do what you think is right.... but prolly the best piece of advice came from this guy:

blindboy wrote:There are roughly six billion people in the world. Six fucking billion. Thats a six with nine zeros after it. Screw that one and only line of thought. I figure there are about 10,000 "one and onlys" for each of us.

He's right 100 times over. You have plenty of time to find one of those Mrs. Rights (I'm assuming your young). Best of luck to you.

Bigun wrote:in that long haul known as life, having more in common than not, is *EXTREMELY* helpful. That includes music, attitude, and lifestyle. I'm not talking from shallowness or selfishness, I'm speaking from experience.

And I also am speaking from 30 years of experience in saying that having those things in common really doesn't matter.

YMMV.

Jack wrote:And I also am speaking from 30 years of experience in saying that having those things in common really doesn't matter.

YMMV.

To each his own then.

*cheers*

*staple staple*

*staple staple*

Oh, and how the hell is Willie Nelson not country music?!

Going off-topic is what message boards are for. I'd like to hear this explanation.

Jack wrote:Oh, and how the hell is Willie Nelson not country music?!

That is exactly what I was about to post.

I can only be absolutely sure of a few things in this world, and one of them is, in fact, that Willie's Nelson is a country music singer.

Please don't shatter my fragile worldview.

I would like to state that even though I'm orginally from Tazewell as well, and my last name is Ramsey...I'm not related to this person.

Thank you fer your time.

Hope all things in Knoxville are swell.

If any of you guys come to Atl. to go clubbing, maybe I'll see ya there.


OUt like a TimeLord.

OmeGaDucK wrote:I would like to state that even though I'm orginally from Tazewell as well, and my last name is Ramsey...I'm not related to this person.

LOL, I was actually wondering that myself...

you can never win anyone back. be glad you fucked her while you did. if she were to return it'd only be out of pity.
( but then, in every relationship one side feels pity to some degree for the other )
realize what you think you feel as 'love' is just a chemical reaction in your brain...the only reason you're upset now is you're reproductive material has flown the coup...and you're instininct is convincing you 'you need' her....in order to convince her.

move on.

and if she is 'one of us' make an appointment at the clinic because this is one big tainted incestuous pool where everyonehas slept w/ everyone.

move on. find a hobby. move on.

Balance wrote:and if she is 'one of us' make an appointment at the clinic because this is one big tainted incestuous pool where everyonehas slept w/ everyone.

Chumming - the use of ground-up or cut-up bait to attract fish close to the boat, or in some cases the ice-fishing hole, which can sometimes cause enough attraction to cause a feeding burst or frenzy.

"All game fish respond in varying degrees to chum. For some anglers chumming has become an art form, even a science. One thing is absolutely sure, effective chumming techniques produce more fish. Let’s discuss some of the most productive methods that will make you a more successful angler."

"The practice of using chum offshore has to be about as old as fishing itself. Who wants to just sit there and wait with nothing going on when there's every chance that just a little extra effort and expense will likely turn the whole day around? "

"Y'all know me. Know how I earn a livin'. I'll catch this bird for you, but it ain't gonna be easy. Bad fish. Not like going down to the pond and chasing bluegills and tommycocks. This shark, swallow you whole. No shakin', no tenderizin', down you go."

Jack wrote:Oh, and how the hell is Willie Nelson not country music?!

Going off-topic is what message boards are for. I'd like to hear this explanation.

Off topic we go:

Assholes are like opinions.... everyone's got one... and they stink.

I consider Willie Nelson more like Blue Grass/Folk than I do country.... and before you start lashing back out... please reference above.

Bigun wrote:Assholes are like opinions.... everyone's got one... and they stink.

I'm not going into detail meter by meter for the simple fact it isn't worth arguing over. But hey, if you wish to spray.. then go for it.