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Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 11:53 am
by gwenhwyfar
Hardcoregirl wrote:None of the options apply...
Oh My God! Get behind me Satan, mine christian eyes are burning!
--My eyes are burning, but they aren't Christian. They have taste.
They're ok. I'd rather drink and practice aloof gothness.
--No that aloofness is just a different sort of attention-whoring.
I think they are amusing, for a short time. Stop being such an attenion hog; its soooo un-goth.
--I think they are about as amusing as a train wreck. Wish we could sell self respect at the store.
-- HOLY FRIGGING HELL YES! "Perform" your ass off, babe.... I'll just sit here and watch.
No, Miz_Kitty is pretty much the only girl worthly of my attention...the girl has class, self respect, she can dance, puts effort into her outfits and appearance and has earned her stripes!
--THE SHADOW BOX GIRLS ARE F@CKING GODDESSES! They can do whatever, whenever, to whomever: I will adore them FOREVER!
Really the Kitty is the only one I ever enjoy watching in the boxes.
I haven't been to temple in a couple months, but I always look at the pictures and pics of certain "performances" if you can call them that, are one thing that has kept me from coming back in so long. If I wanted to see any hick girl off the street look like a skank, I'd go to one of the lower-end strip clubs in the area.
Call me an elitist bitch, its not like it hasn't been said before...
I'd say 99 percent of the guys don't give a rats ass, its ass in their face, but women, many of them bi or at least that have been involved in the "scene" here for a while will tell you, as a good friend said
"there is a fine line between sexy and skanky."
that was beautifully said
and i'm glad i'm not the only person that thinks theres a difference between sexy and skanky and in some cases, straight-up nasty.
Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 4:30 pm
by Coor
DarkVader wrote:livingindarkness wrote:hey girls i think we need to give our viewers a little more then usual so that maybe we'ed get a little more attention these guy's love us and diserve more the girl's just don't care so why should we care girls are welcome if they would like to give us a chance
Punctuation?
Intelligence?
As for the sexy v. skanky bit...agreed. No one can say that they haven't crossed the line at least once, but most who aren't skanky can say that they don't cross it on a regular basis.
For example...
Low cut jeans - Sexy
Low cut jeans with thong - Skanky
Girl with no panites (with her ass covered) -Sexy
Girl with no panties on a platform - EXTREAMLY Skanky
Wearing a cute top the size of a bra - Sexy
Taking off your shirt to dance in your bra - Skanky
Next week we can go over things you should never do on the first date...
Sneak peak..
Go over the size of your ex's penis...no matter how big or small it was.
Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 4:55 pm
by gwenhwyfar
haha.
coor and i should start our own tv show.
similar to the BBC's 'what not to wear'
ours can be 'what not to do'
we'll have special guest appearances every week.
we can start with hardcoregirl.
sorry.
i'll take my random thoughts elsewhere now.
Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 5:09 pm
by junkie christ
Coor wrote:DarkVader wrote:livingindarkness wrote:hey girls i think we need to give our viewers a little more then usual so that maybe we'ed get a little more attention these guy's love us and diserve more the girl's just don't care so why should we care girls are welcome if they would like to give us a chance
Punctuation?
Intelligence?
As for the sexy v. skanky bit...agreed. No one can say that they haven't crossed the line at least once, but most who aren't skanky can say that they don't cross it on a regular basis.
For example...
Low cut jeans - Sexy
Low cut jeans with thong - Skanky
Girl with no panites (with her ass covered) -Sexy
Girl with no panties on a platform - EXTREAMLY Skanky
Wearing a cute top the size of a bra - Sexy
Taking off your shirt to dance in your bra - Skanky
Next week we can go over things you should never do on the first date...
Sneak peak..
Go over the size of your ex's penis...no matter how big or small it was.
i spit mt dew thru my nose laughin at this
Posted: Sat Oct 01, 2005 5:28 pm
by iblis
Hardcoregirl wrote:If I wanted to see any hick girl off the street look like a skank, I'd go to one of the lower-end strip clubs in the area.
Or go to Wal-mart.
Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 12:54 pm
by Coor
iblis wrote:Hardcoregirl wrote:If I wanted to see any hick girl off the street look like a skank, I'd go to one of the lower-end strip clubs in the area.
Or go to Wal-mart.
Niiice...but I'm not sure thatskanky = unshowed and missing teeth...meh. There has to bea connection point somewhere.
Posted: Sun Oct 02, 2005 3:47 pm
by Thrall
I have been known to dance in a shadow box from time to time. Yes it is for the attention. I am usually drunk and having a "hey yall look at me" moment. as for other people, I don't care. chances are I won't even notice being the most self absorbed person I know.
Posted: Tue Oct 04, 2005 10:31 pm
by Shadow
junkie christ wrote:Coor wrote:DarkVader wrote:livingindarkness wrote:hey girls i think we need to give our viewers a little more then usual so that maybe we'ed get a little more attention these guy's love us and diserve more the girl's just don't care so why should we care girls are welcome if they would like to give us a chance
Punctuation?
Intelligence?
As for the sexy v. skanky bit...agreed. No one can say that they haven't crossed the line at least once, but most who aren't skanky can say that they don't cross it on a regular basis.
For example...
Low cut jeans - Sexy
Low cut jeans with thong - Skanky
Girl with no panites (with her ass covered) -Sexy
Girl with no panties on a platform - EXTREAMLY Skanky
Wearing a cute top the size of a bra - Sexy
Taking off your shirt to dance in your bra - Skanky
Next week we can go over things you should never do on the first date...
Sneak peak..
Go over the size of your ex's penis...no matter how big or small it was.
i spit mt dew thru my nose laughin at this
I choked on my coffee. I think Coor owes us a drink.
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 12:57 am
by cutelittlepsycho20
whether or not someone happens to take off a top or bottom, down to a bra and panties is beyond my control. as for me i do it for comfort mostly. i dance a lot (there for i am a puddle of sweat). some people think i dance "too much" because i want to please everyone. and i couln't give a rats ass what anyone thinks about that. i like to see people have a good time. that helps me have a good time as well.
I am definitely agreeing w/ a few of the comments made about some girls trying to get attention. all that is happening right now is they're getting more and more attention with every snide remark that is made here. i will defend those girls to the bitter end. i being one of those girls who like to dance their ass off. whether or not anyone watches i don't care (sober or inebriated). i'm not trying to say anyone on this line of posts is wrong or right. Dancing makes me feel better, helps me release stress. if getting attention takes the weight of the day off their shoulders than more power to them.
"Girls just wanna have fun!!!" Dammit.
I've said my piece. ( please don't punish me grammar nazi's i had a shitty day at work:-( )
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 6:17 am
by Asher
...eh....i dont think anyone said girls who dance are skanks..
there's a line, and its crossed every weekend. Hell even my best friends cross it sometimes. Doesnt mean i love them any less. Just means i want to either take away thier alcohol and slap em around a bit or take many pictures and blackmail them later.
yeah..yeah i know..i know..im supposed to just shut up and repeat like a good little parrot "doesnt matter what people do just so long as they are having fun and not hurting anyone." okay..so a lack of self respect does kinda burn the eyes from the sockets but then again..we dont have to look either..
so the gaze drifts..Jay-sus..wish i wouldn't have looked over there either..my damn ovaries just shriveled...
more drifting..more traumatizing...at some point you're almost guaranteed to swear there's a midget and ZZ Top involved..
And no..im not a prude..i enjoy debauchery as much as the next red blooded woman. im just a snob. There's a distinct lack of beauty, grace and sincerity thats almost hard to define on some level. But maybe thats just it.
If you dont realize its missing..chances are you never had such qualities anyway.
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 2:49 pm
by Coor
Asher wrote:...eh....i dont think anyone said girls who dance are skanks..
there's a line, and its crossed every weekend. Hell even my best friends cross it sometimes. Doesnt mean i love them any less. Just means i want to either take away thier alcohol and slap em around a bit or take many pictures and blackmail them later.
yeah..yeah i know..i know..im supposed to just shut up and repeat like a good little parrot "doesnt matter what people do just so long as they are having fun and not hurting anyone." okay..so a lack of self respect does kinda burn the eyes from the sockets but then again..we dont have to look either..
so the gaze drifts..Jay-sus..wish i wouldn't have looked over there either..my damn ovaries just shriveled...
more drifting..more traumatizing...at some point you're almost guaranteed to swear there's a midget and ZZ Top involved..
And no..im not a prude..i enjoy debauchery as much as the next red blooded woman. im just a snob. There's a distinct lack of beauty, grace and sincerity thats almost hard to define on some level. But maybe thats just it.
If you dont realize its missing..chances are you never had such qualities anyway.
Agreed. Russo dances in the cage...I never see her under clothing. Laura dances in the cage...Neversee her taking things off for people to take pictures...There is a distinct differance...I think cages kick ass in clubs...I also thought the guy who was PAID BY THE CLUB to dance in the cage kicked ass...I didn't mind tipping him... I tipped (as did my friends) because it was his JOB...he wasn'tsome random guy putting on a show for people so that someone would give him their number, or so that they could live out some rock star fantasy, or so they could go home and feel loved or popular...He did it because it was his JOB.
Shadow, remind me and I'll get you that drink...
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 4:14 pm
by junkie christ
how bout this
dance if you want
do what you want
and if someone doesnt like it, dont look.
simple
things can only offend if you if you choose to be that guy and say UGH I CANT BELIEVE IT and stop having a good time because...... someone else is?
my 2 cents.
not aimed at anyone, just this whole conversation seems really silly.
Posted: Wed Oct 05, 2005 9:58 pm
by cutelittlepsycho20
junkie christ wrote:how bout this
dance if you want
do what you want
and if someone doesnt like it, dont look.
simple
things can only offend if you if you choose to be that guy and say UGH I CANT BELIEVE IT and stop having a good time because...... someone else is?
my 2 cents.
not aimed at anyone, just this whole conversation seems really silly.
Fo' shizzle!!!!
Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 9:51 am
by Mercurygriffin
cutelittlepsycho20 wrote:junkie christ wrote:how bout this
dance if you want
do what you want
and if someone doesnt like it, dont look.
simple
things can only offend if you if you choose to be that guy and say UGH I CANT BELIEVE IT and stop having a good time because...... someone else is?
my 2 cents.
not aimed at anyone, just this whole conversation seems really silly.
Fo' shizzle!!!!
Agreed!
And I have to add this:
What is wrong with putting yourself out on a limb, regardless of the reason?
You could do lots of things for lots of reasons but if you do some things for some reasons you are a skank and you should be ashamed.
BULLSHIT!
I say that if you have the want to do something in order to attain a goal or to just have fun that doesn't involve others physicaly hurting or actually mentally hurting( not just slightly offended) then go right the fuck on and do whatever the fuck you want to do.
And if it happens to be because you are really drunk then best of luck getting down without breaking your head.
Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 2:03 pm
by cutelittlepsycho20
Mercurygriffin wrote:cutelittlepsycho20 wrote:junkie christ wrote:how bout this
dance if you want
do what you want
and if someone doesnt like it, dont look.
simple
things can only offend if you if you choose to be that guy and say UGH I CANT BELIEVE IT and stop having a good time because...... someone else is?
my 2 cents.
not aimed at anyone, just this whole conversation seems really silly.
Fo' shizzle!!!!
Agreed!
And I have to add this:
What is wrong with putting yourself out on a limb, regardless of the reason?
You could do lots of things for lots of reasons but if you do some things for some reasons you are a skank and you should be ashamed.
BULLSHIT!
I say that if you have the want to do something in order to attain a goal or to just have fun that doesn't involve others physicaly hurting or actually mentally hurting( not just slightly offended) then go right the fuck on and do whatever the fuck you want to do.
And if it happens to be because you are really drunk then best of luck getting down without breaking your head.
Preach it Brotha!!!!!
Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 4:27 pm
by miz kitty
As everyone knows, I love to dance in the cages and shadow box. It is one of the few places I can really let it fly. Also, I like being naked, but only the piviledged few (who am I kidding), get to see the goodies. Regardless of motivation, I say go for it. Obviously some people do it for the attention, but some people really just want to have a good time. I have faced the argument over the years that I am degrading myself, have no self respect, am setting back the femenist movement, blah, blah... to the naysayers, I simply say I am what I like to call a Malcolm X femenist....by any means necessary. Isn't it the establishment telling us that we as women have to be bitchy and competeive and all that horseshit? The secret plan is working, if we are all bitching at eachother we have less time to focus real issues...like equal pay for equal work, keeping abortion legal, or the horrific fact that there are places in the world where a cliterectomy is an everyday occurance.Kudos to the younger crowd, you all keep this old cat on her toes. The only request I have is this, who ever the girl is with the 70s porn star bush is, please trim the hedge a bit. You are lovely, but I really do't need to know first hand your natural hair color. Otherwise, keep the groove going until I get back. Hope to see you all soon!
Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 9:04 pm
by Coor
The only request I have is this, who ever the girl is with the 70s porn star bush is, please trim the hedge a bit. You are lovely, but I really do't need to know first hand your natural hair color
I believe that is how the sexy v. skanky thing came up...at least for me...
Posted: Thu Oct 06, 2005 9:57 pm
by Russo
It's not what you wear that makes someone skanky; it's the attitude they project.
If you want to dance, go for it. But if you're dancing like a coked-out stripper, don't be surprised if people say you have no self-respect. So you have to ask yourself, "Do I really care what people think about me?" And obviously someone does, or else they wouldn't have started a thread about it.
Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 9:21 pm
by Mother Mo
Live & let live. Folks come out to have a good time & dance & drink or whatever. I know there's always gonna be somebody sitting off to the side somewhere passing some kind of judgement over the physical appearance of others in whatever manner they choose, but I think it speaks more to the character of the person judging than it does the one being judged. At least for me it does. I've been snickered at by various folks before & it sucks, but I choose not to let those individuals have any power over me & continue to do what I love... dance. Nobody has to watch anyone they don't want to.
Posted: Fri Oct 07, 2005 11:05 pm
by iblis
so, in the end, it's simple: everyone sucks.
thus, at least the guys are happy.
