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advice for my friend
Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2004 9:04 pm
by Burlesquebroads
She's kinda new to the scene here and since i rarely go out or do anything but my schoolwork I thought I'd ask here. She wants to know other than Sanctus,,how she can find a single goth male around these parts. Does anyone know of any gothic personals links I can give her? BTW we'll be at Sanctus.
Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2004 9:14 pm
by junkie christ
i dont trust those goth personal ads for shit.
just tell her to post a hello thread on this board and ask around to meet the people that post into it. thats the best sure fire trick i know.
esp if she puts that seeking single goth male thing in it.
single guys will flock to meet her.
its worked many times on this board before.........
Posted: Tue Jan 20, 2004 9:48 pm
by Cryso lueth Wylthen
And some of the people on here are very young mind you.
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2004 7:08 am
by lovechild
how old are you hadessious
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2004 7:28 am
by Codeine Coma
<agree's with the Junkie
weeell
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2004 10:47 am
by Burlesquebroads
like I said she is very shy and very fresh meat..soo any single guys interested send me a message and i will send u a pic of her and her contact info. I may eventually talk her into posting here.
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2004 1:57 pm
by vicious_blood
From one shy person to another, sounds like she just needs to come out and hang, then get to know some people...
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2004 2:39 pm
by X
I've seen alot of people just come on and play in the chat room for hours at a time, until they "know" a screen name well enough to come to a sanctus and find said person.....
Of course i've been lazy as of late, but i think half of the fun i had at the older sanctus' was taking people around and being like...and this is.....*insert name here*....and this is *insert name here*.....and this is capt bluebeard....he will grab your ass.....ooooop see....*high five to rick behind young ladies back*
Posted: Wed Jan 21, 2004 5:32 pm
by Cryso lueth Wylthen
lovechild wrote:how old are you hadessious
Im very young, Im some ugly little skinny short 16 year old. But i will be 17 in a few months~ 7 to be exact
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 7:03 am
by lovechild
well im only 17 about 18...lol....dont think your alone in not being able to go to events like sanctus...
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 10:19 am
by Hardcoregirl
My advice would be not doing anything with the expressed goal of finding a "single goth male".
Make friends to make friends, be social for your own personal enjoyment, not to find a significant other.
Entering a group of people just to find dates is tacky and standing a bit too close to desperate which isn't gonna get a girl any guys. Well, not any guys worth having.
One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".
Good luck to her, just tell her to come out and she's surely make friends, and who knows what may come after that.
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 12:07 pm
by Lost Traveler
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 2:12 pm
by vicious_blood
Hadessious Darkreaver wrote:lovechild wrote:how old are you hadessious
Im very young, Im some ugly little skinny short 16 year old. But i will be 17 in a few months~ 7 to be exact
Your not short or ugly...but maybe skinny.
But, dude, you're definatly (sp?) NOT short.
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 2:53 pm
by div
Buttercup wrote:One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".
But "goth chicks" ARE hot... oh, wait... this is me talking - ALL chicks are hot, given the variable hot. Soft-fluffy-thing-you-put-your-head-on-to-sleep, anyone?
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 3:18 pm
by DarkVader
Buttercup wrote:One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".
But... That's why I joined....
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 4:08 pm
by junkie christ
DarkVader wrote:Buttercup wrote:One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".
But... That's why I joined....
:bats eyelashes:
YOU TWO??????????????????
we are like :hiccup: soo connected!!
heheheheeheeheh
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 4:29 pm
by Cryso lueth Wylthen
I joined because Im a forum rat ^.^
On this other Forum I belong to I have over 2500 posts
And none of which are spam~
Anyways, Im not interested in gothic females...
Their incredibly mean
Nice guys finish last (they make sure she finishes first!)
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 5:07 pm
by Scorptrio
OK, so the subject is bad...
This scene (like any other) has the range from nice guys - predators. The trick is finding out which is which before getting involved.
My advice: make friends, lots of them, don't rush into anything.
Gregori
Re: Nice guys finish last (they make sure she finishes first
Posted: Thu Jan 22, 2004 5:41 pm
by Cryso lueth Wylthen
Scorptrio wrote:OK, so the subject is bad...
This scene (like any other) has the range from nice guys - predators. The trick is finding out which is which before getting involved.
My advice: make friends, lots of them, don't rush into anything.
Gregori
Gregori, can I have some of your brilliance plx?