I cant say much, since I actually joined an online dating service.... but check this one out:

http://gothicmatch.com/

I went ahead and joined the 'free' part of it. Maybe ill change to this one, since I dont seem to be having much luck with the 'normal' site that I pay for!

I joined there a few years ago, when I wasn't single. I know that probably sounds weird. I like to meet people for friends through these places though.

Yeah. Ive met a few cool people and built some cool relationships/friendships with people that live in other cities.

I thought by the title it was gonna be a celebrity death match thread or something

That would be interesting..... MM against Al J....