advice for my friend

Burlesquebroads · Post by **Burlesquebroads** » Tue Jan 20, 2004 9:04 pm

She's kinda new to the scene here and since i rarely go out or do anything but my schoolwork I thought I'd ask here. She wants to know other than Sanctus,,how she can find a single goth male around these parts. Does anyone know of any gothic personals links I can give her? BTW we'll be at Sanctus.

junkie christ · Post by **junkie christ** » Tue Jan 20, 2004 9:14 pm

i dont trust those goth personal ads for shit.
just tell her to post a hello thread on this board and ask around to meet the people that post into it. thats the best sure fire trick i know.
esp if she puts that seeking single goth male thing in it.
single guys will flock to meet her.
its worked many times on this board before.........

Cryso lueth Wylthen · Post by **Cryso lueth Wylthen** » Tue Jan 20, 2004 9:48 pm

And some of the people on here are very young mind you. :twisted:

lovechild · Post by **lovechild** » Wed Jan 21, 2004 7:08 am

how old are you hadessious

Codeine Coma · Post by **Codeine Coma** » Wed Jan 21, 2004 7:28 am

<agree's with the Junkie

Burlesquebroads · Post by **Burlesquebroads** » Wed Jan 21, 2004 10:47 am

like I said she is very shy and very fresh meat..soo any single guys interested send me a message and i will send u a pic of her and her contact info. I may eventually talk her into posting here.

vicious_blood · Post by **vicious_blood** » Wed Jan 21, 2004 1:57 pm

From one shy person to another, sounds like she just needs to come out and hang, then get to know some people... :shrug:

X · Post by X » Wed Jan 21, 2004 2:39 pm

I've seen alot of people just come on and play in the chat room for hours at a time, until they "know" a screen name well enough to come to a sanctus and find said person.....

Of course i've been lazy as of late, but i think half of the fun i had at the older sanctus' was taking people around and being like...and this is.....*insert name here*....and this is *insert name here*.....and this is capt bluebeard....he will grab your ass.....ooooop see....*high five to rick behind young ladies back*

Cryso lueth Wylthen · Post by **Cryso lueth Wylthen** » Wed Jan 21, 2004 5:32 pm

lovechild wrote:how old are you hadessious

Im very young, Im some ugly little skinny short 16 year old. But i will be 17 in a few months~ 7 to be exact

lovechild · Post by **lovechild** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 7:03 am

well im only 17 about 18...lol....dont think your alone in not being able to go to events like sanctus...

junkie christ · Post by **junkie christ** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 9:01 am

just for the record....
this is the first time finding single goth males has ever been considered an issue.....
ususally its the guys going hey do you know any.....
im lovin the irony of this.
id put all my money are your friend meeting men, just dunno if they will be men she wants to meet...............
:twisted:

Hardcoregirl · Post by **Hardcoregirl** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 10:19 am

My advice would be not doing anything with the expressed goal of finding a "single goth male".

Make friends to make friends, be social for your own personal enjoyment, not to find a significant other.

Entering a group of people just to find dates is tacky and standing a bit too close to desperate which isn't gonna get a girl any guys. Well, not any guys worth having.

One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".

Good luck to her, just tell her to come out and she's surely make friends, and who knows what may come after that.

Lost Traveler · Post by **Lost Traveler** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 12:07 pm

vicious_blood · Post by **vicious_blood** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 2:12 pm

Hadessious Darkreaver wrote:
lovechild wrote:how old are you hadessious

Im very young, Im some ugly little skinny short 16 year old. But i will be 17 in a few months~ 7 to be exact

Your not short or ugly...but maybe skinny. :P~

But, dude, you're definatly (sp?) NOT short.

div · Post by **div** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 2:53 pm

Buttercup wrote:One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".

But "goth chicks" ARE hot... oh, wait... this is me talking - ALL chicks are hot, given the variable hot. Soft-fluffy-thing-you-put-your-head-on-to-sleep, anyone?

Post by **DarkVader** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 3:18 pm

Buttercup wrote:One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".

But... That's why I joined....

junkie christ · Post by **junkie christ** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 4:08 pm

DarkVader wrote:
Buttercup wrote:One of my personal pet peeves are the guys who join because "goth chicks are hot".

But... That's why I joined....

:bats eyelashes:
YOU TWO??????????????????
we are like :hiccup: soo connected!!
heheheheeheeheh

Cryso lueth Wylthen · Post by **Cryso lueth Wylthen** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 4:29 pm

I joined because Im a forum rat ^.^
On this other Forum I belong to I have over 2500 posts :twisted:

And none of which are spam~
Anyways, Im not interested in gothic females...
Their incredibly mean

Scorptrio · Post by **Scorptrio** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 5:07 pm

OK, so the subject is bad...

This scene (like any other) has the range from nice guys - predators. The trick is finding out which is which before getting involved.

My advice: make friends, lots of them, don't rush into anything.

Gregori

Cryso lueth Wylthen · Post by **Cryso lueth Wylthen** » Thu Jan 22, 2004 5:41 pm

Scorptrio wrote:OK, so the subject is bad...

This scene (like any other) has the range from nice guys - predators. The trick is finding out which is which before getting involved.

My advice: make friends, lots of them, don't rush into anything.

Gregori

Gregori, can I have some of your brilliance plx?

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