Quit yer bellyachin'!!!

junkie christ · Post by **junkie christ** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 6:28 pm

blindboy wrote:TiredUnhappy, you are a cunt.

merry christmas.

can i be a cunt too?

blindboy · Post by **blindboy** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 7:52 pm

junkie you are a big Cheese filled cunt.

happy new year.

TiredUnhappy · Post by **TiredUnhappy** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 10:02 pm

blindboy wrote:TiredUnhappy, you are a cunt.

merry christmas.

YES!!!

Blindboy, I LOVE YOU! :twisted:

TiredUnhappy · Post by **TiredUnhappy** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 10:08 pm

Jack wrote:
Ligeia wrote:We are not in highschool anymore.

Haven't been around here long, have you?

There are a lot of people in this scene who act catty, elitist and exclusionary precisely because they're acting out their highschool fantasies of being "the cool kids".

I understand being "elitist" because there's alot of drama around here... I can completely agree with that... but I still find the entire concept a bit off. I mean, aren't we all supposed to be social outcasts...but now we have social outcasts, outcasting other social outcasts? :?:

I consider myself elitist in alot of ways, but I'm not the type of person to just leave people out and be like "well, it's because you're not worthy"...I'd rather just watch them get on my nerves, and ban them...and then make a cunt thread about them YEEHAW! :twisted:

Most of the people that try to "act" like their lives are better than everyone elses generally have the most shitty of lives... I just find it's a matter of perspective, and opinion.

TiredUnhappy · Post by **TiredUnhappy** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 10:10 pm

junkie christ wrote:
blindboy wrote:TiredUnhappy, you are a cunt.

merry christmas.
can i be a cunt too?

trying to steal my cunt-thunder I see... I know where you sleep! if only your snoring was not so wretched.. :-(

(

)

Vachy · Post by **Vachy** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 10:15 pm

Whelp...I had a nice long rant for ya, but I guess I'm still out, as you have to be 18 to join. *sigh* I'll leave my post here, though, because I still have the same opinion, I just can't do anything about it yet...And it took me a long time to type. :-)

----------------------------------------------
.... :!:

I am unsure wether to join or not. I don't know if I could feel comfortable. I'm still not all that laid back here, as I don't actually know anyone and can't meet them (17, and can't drive :-(

) but ya'll seem pretty welcoming and friendly, so...

I've been to the the private forum which may not be named (I can say that now, can't I?) forum before, following a link there, but I didn't read much; it felt like intruding on their privacy. And after recent drama here, I searched this forum for mention of Kf, and discovered all the tension. I really don't want to get caught up in that, and become disliked before I'm even liked in the first place.

I never cared if they were invite only or not. Probably because I didn't know anyone, so I haven't been rejected. If I was, I can see how that would hurt my feelings. But I can see the benefits of members only. In the 8 or 9 months I've been here I've seen my share of trolls, assholes, and idiots. I can also understand why KG wants this board to be open. After all, if it weren't, I wouldn't be here. Thanks.

I'm still in high school, one year left. I hate all the bullshit drama that goes on. I hope I contribut as little as possible. There are very few people I can tollerate for long, including some of my friends. Most of it involes people's relationships. Very little of it is with cliques. That was a middle school problem. I hoped I wouldn't have to deal with as much shit as an adult, but apparently not so.

I would like to join to meet more people. When I finally get to meet everyone in person, I would like to actually know them a little, have something to talk about. But I don't want to get shit from people who don't like the Kf forum.

Fuck. I want to join, so I will. But I'm not on anyone's side. As I said, I agree with both.

Sorry about this, I guess it's a pointless rant. But thanks for hearing me out. And thanks for having me in the first place, sorry that I don't contribute much. I hope to be at the December Sanctus, and the December whatever Kf has. See ya'll there.

edit: I see it automatically changes it to "private forum which may not be named"... :roofle:

dragon_gurl · Post by **dragon_gurl** » Fri Jun 25, 2004 11:11 pm

well i guess this thread has somewhat answered my thread. Vachy sanctus is fun. So come on out when you are old enough. don't let the forum drama stop you from hanging out. Besides there are alot of really cool People at sanctus that you don't see much on the forums. Most of the community is cool, and those who aren't you can avoid. There is alot of space at Blue cats.

X · Post by X » Fri Jun 25, 2004 11:11 pm

HEY HEY HEY......

its now the "Public forum which may not be named"

I say its no big thang. I mean everyones bitch was "twas a private forum" now its public. So hints, there shouldn't be any more bitching.

We're at like 50 memebers now, and i personally think that will bump to about 150. Which is a small number compared to here. But at the same time, as i pointed out the other day.....do this expirament- go to memberlist, and sort by posts made. Look at how many people here registered that are part of the 9 million or whatever, that have never even posted. Now go along with that fact and say, ok how many of those that have posted 5 or less posts, have you ever seen out....or heard someone make mention of? Very likely none to a very few of them

My point here, well Chewbacca is from the planet Kshyakk, but he lives on the moon of Endor......NOW Chewbacca is a 7 foot tall wookie, who hangs out with 3 foot tall Ewoks.....does that make sense....OF COURSE IT DOESN'T...its LUDACRIOUS.

karlaBOO · Post by **karlaBOO** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 12:45 am

I don't know anything about "cliques" here. I DO know that there are people here that have known each other longer than just a little bit, and that see each other, and care about each other, in real life.

When KG was still around 300 or so members, you still pretty much knew who everyone was. It was easier to plan the smallish gatherings, and make sure that everyone felt included and welcomed. For me personally, that got a little out of hand. When it got out to "just ask for karlaBOO" at Sanctus, or whatever, I retreated A LOT. I wanted to hang out with, and get to know better, the people that I already knew. I was getting intoduced to all of these people that I was expected to show around and introduce them to quite literally everyone. Not only that, but some of them wanted some sort of instant "best friend's" type of relationship. THAT was weird. I've known my best friend for almost 16 years. I don't do the instant best friend thing.

Frankly the private forum which may not be named was a relief to me. I could communicate with some people I already knew, in a group setting, and not have to worry about if they were just talking to me because I'm married to Jason, or because they thought they could get something from me. It has never been like a clique to me. Just a group of people that I care about.

Do I care that it's public? Not really. I'm not around much on either board to really have any emotional response about it.

TieMeUp · Post by **TieMeUp** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 1:35 am

Why isn't there fun and drama like this in Chatty?

Am I so under a rock in that damn place not to see drama there?

I seriously need to move again...
3rd move in a year...
Got to keep movin' the ex can't catch up...

junkie christ · Post by **junkie christ** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 1:43 am

blindboy wrote:junkie you are a big Cheese filled cunt.
happy new year.

i love cheese. but sometimes it makes me poo
that makes me a poo filled cunt i i get to cheese filled.
:-D

ty ty bl1ndb0y

TiredUnhappy wrote:trying to steal my cunt-thunder I see... I know where you sleep! if only your snoring was not so wretched..

oh no. your cunt can thunder all it wants, as long as it does it where im not located nor shall ever be.........

scarecrow · Post by **scarecrow** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 2:40 am

Jack wrote:
Ligeia wrote:We are not in highschool anymore.

Haven't been around here long, have you?

There are a lot of people in this scene who act catty, elitist and exclusionary precisely because they're acting out their highschool fantasies of being "the cool kids".

I hate to Jack...but shit I have to agree with that one......on both sides....

Mistress Eve(L) · Post by **Mistress Eve(L)** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 3:23 am

Hmmm. I hated high school. It would be more entertaining if it were on fire. (Thank you MafiaJeff)

But I joined. Come on......come sit at my table.....Im cool......to at least a coupla people. I may not be acting out a high school fantasy of being the cool kid......but I'm funny.

Come on.....follow the Darkprincess.

Oh Christ, this is not rocket science. You arent choosing sides, you are still a member of KG.....You can still post here too! You arent defecting.....Its JUST ANOTHER FORUM.....

Come on.....sit at the Darkprincess cool table. I might just get on top of it and sing.......WILDLY ENTERTAINING!

shadow dancer · Post by **shadow dancer** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 9:22 am

Vachy wrote:I would like to join to meet more people. When I finally get to meet everyone in person, I would like to actually know them a little, have something to talk about. But I don't want to get shit from people who don't like the Kf forum.

Fuck. I want to join, so I will. But I'm not on anyone's side. As I said, I agree with both.

Don't get discouraged by all the bullshit. Within this "scene", there are many worthwhile individuals to get to know. I have said the exact following before to other people who were new to Sanctus, and I will say it again. Most of the people around here don't care who you associate with or how you dress as long as you are yourself; those who would judge you for it without getting to know you aren't worth knowing anyway.

Caustic · Post by **Caustic** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 9:55 am

shadow dancer wrote:Most of the people around here don't care who you associate with or how you dress as long as you are yourself; those who would judge you for it without getting to know you aren't worth knowing anyway.

I won't like you if you don't dress Goth enough.

TiredUnhappy · Post by **TiredUnhappy** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 10:37 am

junkie christ wrote:
blindboy wrote:junkie you are a big Cheese filled cunt.
happy new year.
i love cheese. but sometimes it makes me poo
that makes me a poo filled cunt i i get to cheese filled.
ty ty bl1ndb0y
TiredUnhappy wrote:trying to steal my cunt-thunder I see... I know where you sleep! if only your snoring was not so wretched..
oh no. your cunt can thunder all it wants, as long as it does it where im not located nor shall ever be.........

(

)

Damia_Thorne · Post by **Damia_Thorne** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 10:45 am

I am free of all prejudices, I hate everyone equally. :rofl:

Ligeia · Post by **Ligeia** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 11:18 am

Jack wrote:
Ligeia wrote:We are not in highschool anymore.

Haven't been around here long, have you?

There are a lot of people in this scene who act catty, elitist and exclusionary precisely because they're acting out their highschool fantasies of being "the cool kids".

Yes, in fact I was raised in this area, and I frequented Lava quite a bit. And I've always thought the catty, highschool level squabbling was stupid, unecessary, and a waste of time. I agree with you, but, yes, I've seen it for years and it pisses me off every time. This is why alot of people don't really know me, I'm around, have been, but I usually just stay out of this crap.

Ligeia · Post by **Ligeia** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 11:23 am

junkie christ wrote:
blindboy wrote:TiredUnhappy, you are a cunt.

merry christmas.
can i be a cunt too?

Awe, you'll always be a cunt in my book, hunny. :kiss:

jjenisis · Post by **jjenisis** » Sat Jun 26, 2004 11:47 am

I was just perusing the nf site and there seems to me, a bit more sexy, naughty vibe from it , than this one does....does anyone else pick that up or maybe my mind is just in the gutter.....heh...wouldn't be the first time.

Quit yer bellyachin'!!!

Interesting