what kinda guys/girls do u prefer?

[CHSgothbabe09]

What kinda guys/girls do you prefer?
A.)The freaks (as in the wierd hair the style of cloths)
B.)The PUNKS
C.)The GOTHS
D.)The popular
E.)every kind
F.)other

[iblis]

What kinda guys/girls do you prefer?
A.)The freaks (as in the wierd hair the style of cloths)
B.)The PUNKS
C.)The GOTHS
D.)The popular
E.)every kind
F.)other

I suppose I should say "F", as a lady who can't be herself is not worth mentioning, let alone associating with. Same with guys, for that matter.

Those who cling to a genre, be it Goff or otherwise, are sheep.

[Cryso lueth Wylthen]

Id have to pick other, I prefer people who have their own personalities.
Personally I think my ex girlfriend was just sheer perfection (misses her )

[Coor]

I'm an Anti- labelists, thus I stick to my own kind

Iblis- WTF was the sheep thing?

JC- How did ya like that?

[TiredUnhappy]

I prefer the guy I'm dating and will inevitably marry... yes, he is perfect.

[cutelittlepsycho20]

i am currently engaged right now. but before it would have been whoever i wanted. be it goth, punk, freak, psycho....whatever. but i prefer someone who is as crazy if not more insane that i am. as you already know i am a psycho hehehehehehehehehehehehehehe

[lovechild]

i agree with all of the others i would pick f. other ....

I like guys who i can have a good time with, can carry on a good convo with and looks are a good thing to have as well...be that a goth, punk, or whatever.

[blindboy]

What kinda guys/girls do you prefer?

I don't date hermaphrodites sorry.

[judas gnb]

i like my women a little on the trashy side.They gotta like nascar,monster trucks,tractor pulls,pro wrestling.Also must be a fan of 70s and 80s movies.So when i found all this in my girl i kept her.Although shes not trashy but thats ok

[Vachy]

Personally I think my ex girlfriend was just sheer perfection (misses her )

Have you talked to her since you broke up? If you told her all you've told us about making a mistake and missing her, she will perhaps forgive you? Hmmm? Or have you tried this?

Looks like "F" is winning unanimously, and I agree. My boyfriend (2 year anniv. tommorrow!) leans toward the "freak"/"goth" side, but is mostly a mish-mash. His CD collection is includes Sheryl Crow, ICP, Zombie. He'll wear a spongebob t-shirt and trenchcoat. And when we go somewhere, he will make friends with absolutely anyone, when especially amazes me because I'm pretty shy. We're opposites in a lot of ways like that, which makes him all the more interesting. Perfect!

I don't know anyone who fits perfectly into one little category. I doubt many (if any) exist.

[Mourning Shadow]

I prefer someone who isnt into clique's or stereotypes. I don't dress gothic, or anywhere near it most of the time for that matter, but I think that a person who shows themself for who they are turns out to be the most beautiful flower in the garden. So I choose F as well...=D

[junkie christ]

the one i cant stick with a label, is intellegent, great in bed, good looking, and challanges me constantly
and ive been with her around 4 months.

[Cryso lueth Wylthen]

Have you talked to her since you broke up? If you told her all you've told us about making a mistake and missing her, she will perhaps forgive you? Hmmm? Or have you tried this?.

Aye, thats why my ex and I are friends..

[X]

Labels are for nimrods.

and perfection does not exsist...they're always only NEARLY perfect.


for instance....she might like EVERYTHING you do and hate EVERYTHING you do....or want to to in either category.....but she could be psycho, or non-repetitive......

Personally.....my "perfect" chick has to:

1. Hate wrestling....but put up with it since its my thing ( i hate girls who like wrestling cus they're always like...oooh do you know the rock....and want to get involved in the biz...and wanna go to the shows...and then get mad cus i took a bad bump and blah blah blah.....but same time, i want the respect the biz deserves from her, especially since if she is so perfect, it will one day support her)

2. Not dispute my MUST go trips to toy stores/toy isles in stores. This rule also goes for watching cartoons.....because infact, i do act like a 22 year old professional adult most of the time....i like toys, and i like to watch bugs bunny....and i like shit i grew up watching....damnit

3. Can't be too dependent/independent. I hate chicks who gotta be up my ass all the time (insert joke here) I also can't stand only talking/seeing each other once a week/month...whatever busy is good, relaxation is good too.

4. Good fashion skills.....cus when i go out i like being seen with an attractive woman, who knows how to dress....I like having people envy me, and that goes along with the package deal.....i want people to envy my house, my car, my woman.....everything.

5. NO label sticky looneys. aka...this thread...i hate people who have to wear what they would wear to a goth club to the fucking store to get grocerys.....i did that for forever with one girl....and i made fun of her over and over and over.....i then would not get nookie....but i think i made my point.

6. Has to be honest...but not too honest- aka, i want truth, but not hitting me in the side when i use a scam deal to get something for free.

7. Be a good fuck. This is simple and self explanitory.

8. Gotta laugh at most of my retarded jokes.

these are the little ones that really make no difference..but fuck it.

not be weirded out by me having a Boba Fett and Paul Stanley standup in my house.
not pitch a fit over my work hours, and my work-out hours.
not suck all my money from me
not be evil
not tempt me with evil
and last but not least....doesn't fuck my friends.....or my enemies....or anyone i know....unless its a hot chick....and i get to watch.....err i mean....yah.

Labels are retarded....i am the most diverse human ever....infact right now...i'm sitting here on a GOTH board...wearing a PUNK shirt...listening to some ollllld ass COUNTRY music, typing html...or aka being a GEEK....with my GREASER hair.

and in return i would also like to add....if i met this girl at a hot topic/abercrombie or a punk show/rave or online/redneck bar (well unless she had a TERRRRIBLE southern accent, and was missing teeth) that she would still be perfection.










*but all girls are missing one of those characteristics*

[Aerick Ravenheart]

Labels are so fucking high skewl. But sadly, even after high skewl people continue to use them in society as a safety blanket, simply because people are afraid or don't like what they are not used to or don't understand. People are people, but like snowflakes everyone is different in someway. And if I WERE to place myself into a category, then it would be goth/punk. That was the main group I hung out with in skewl, but I also had friends who were skaters, wiggers, hippies, geeks, ya know...WHATEVER. My friends thought I was fucking insane! One minute, I am dressed in my usual black clothing, headbanging to the likes of Manson, Slipknot, COF, Murderdolls, and whatnot. Then the next, I may be wearing a tie dye KISS shirt and blue jeans and bumping some Outkast, Snoop, or EMinem, freestylin' with the homies. My tastes are very diverse, and I am definitely an eccentric eclectic. I have a bit of a borderline schizophrenic personality, so you never know what to expect from me. My first impressions at work were different with different people as well. One person labels me a goth, the next a punk, the next a hip-hopper...then they see me out of my work clothes, and suddenly don't know WHAT to think of me. I get comments like, "I had no clue you liked that", or"I never knew you were into that". My reply is simply..."I'm just me." Popeye said it best..."IYAMWHUTIYAM!" Sure, I consider myself a goth, and don't mind others labeling me as one, but I certainly don't want to limit myself to that alone. I like lots of things that aren't catagorized under "GOTHIC", and just being my own creation. As far as a woman goes....I want someone who is intelligent, creative, funny as hell, and be able to not take things so serious all of the time. She should be positive and sweet without being too bubbly or goofy. I want someone who can love me enough to respect me for my opinions, choices, and beliefs, and not try to change me around to better suit her needs. We must share a lot in common as far as beliefs and interests go(READ:No Christians-been there b4), and who likes to have fun and live life to the fullest. I prefer a girl who parties, yet knows when to quit. Someone who is wild and crazy, and spontaneous,who takes care in herself and is self loving and self preserving without being too self centered. She should be tough and tomboyish, yet gentle and girly. There should be mutual love and trust in the relationship, and be able to spend a lot of time with me, yet give me space when I need it(which is rare when I am in love)...and basically just be a loving and loyal friend, who isn't a prude and isn't afraid to try new things. Someone who is real, and not afraid to just be herself. As far as physical appearance goes....she should take care of herself, and have a spirit and personality that I am attracted to(this comes first b4 all else). Then, she should be cute with a decent body. I like a nice pair of legs, and I prefer brunettes and redheads over blondes. I also prefer younger girls, too. (But if the right woman came along,and was a blonde and/or older, I wouldn't turn her down.) It really just depends on the girl, I guess.......that is the kind of girl I look for. I found her once. Her name was Alysha. (sigh) Ah well....there's other fish in the sea.....but most are fucking rotten and nasty. I can always hope to meet another I suppose....till then.....

[jenna]

i prefer the kind of guy who dresses as a casual professional because he has a good job, but then at the end of the day put on his trenchcoat to walk out to his car that has Dead Kennedys, Big Black, and Pokemon stickers on it.

i also prefer a guy who makes me laugh until tears at something as mundane as a hotdog.

He must be someone that i first met at Sanctus.

He must also be able to talk religion and philosophy with me until the sun rises with neither of us getting bored or tired.

He must enjoy reading.

He must love zombie movies and therefore understand my love of vampire movies.

He must be a good writer.

He must have compatible kinks with mine and turn me on.

He must be a wonderful father to his children.

He must respect me and think that i am intelligent and beautiful.

And finally, he must agree with me that the cheesecake with bananas foster from the Downtown Sheraton in Nashville is nearly a sexual experience.

[Mother Mo]

I've got my Tom. I'm good, thanks.

[Scorptrio]

She should have some experience with magick, astrology, etc. Educated, clean, intelligent and enjoy long conversations about philosophy, spirituality, etc. The best relationship has connections on all levels: spiritual, intellectual, emotional, sensual and physical. Honesty and trust are very important! I'm social and not easily embarrassed. If she feels uncomfortable with making new friends by walking up to strange strangers and striking up a conversation, it's not going to work out. I have no inhibitions so women with hangups or who are on a guilt/shame trip over their sexuality need not apply. She should feel comfortable with someone who practices magick and have an open philosophy. I hang out with all you freaks because none of you are going to be shocked by what I choose to be. I'm mild compared to some of you and I have no problems with even the strangest among the strange. Sensuality is blood to me. Not to turn this into a personal ad, but if any of this seems like you, drop me a line.

[Snap Dragon]

Perfect guy?............

*Um...preferably dark hair with a bit of a wave or natural curls in it.........
*Blue or brown eyes.......intelligent <----YES intelligent please!
*Someone who doesn't gross out at the thought that I like them ... (I've encountered that too much......)
*Not particularly obese.....you know....like not 100 pounds heavier than they should be...
*Gotta have that artistic talent....like writing, drawing, etc.
*I like it if they look gothic or punk...(or look like Elijah Wood)
*Have similar tastes in various things
*A love for animals....toddlers....music.....art...and such things....

That's about it.....or all that I can think of.

I suppose I would choose (from YOUR options....ALL of the ABOVE)

[Catalyst1729]

I perfer the girls who stab srinks, and like it when I pull them around on a leash...I'm pretty happy with my girl now. She's kinda spunky, it took her awhile to get the master thing down...but she's smart. A fast learner.